Saturday, March 12, 2011

Fundraising Update

Raised: $250 of $2,000 ------------------ Raised $1,000 of $6,000



It's so hard for me to ask for money. But I did. And I will. I will set aside my pride so that I can love and serve women in Southern Ethiopia. I sent out an email asking for support earlier this week. I've heard back from a few of you. Thanks so much for your willingness to partner with us in prayer, seed money or our travel fund.

A few of you I've talked to and know that you'll particpate. When you get a chance or get it figured out, will you let me know if you want your financial gift to be for the project or for our travel fund so that I can update my fundraising meters. If you don't care, I'll put it where most needed. Any money I get beyond our travel expenses will go to seed money or towards vaccinations for Ryan's work with the widows.

This next week, we'll be mailing support letters out to some friends and family. I would appreciate if you would continue to lift us up in prayer as we raise support, learn how to serve the women in our respective crops and livestock areas, and prepare to GO.

Friday, March 11, 2011

One Year Ago

One year ago today, we had our second court date and passed.

One year ago today, a little boy named Asfaw Ayele was no longer an orphan.

One year ago today, we had a new member of our family.

One year ago I was relieved to pass court and began counting the weeks until we could travel to get our son!

Judah, I'm so glad that you are part of our family. FOREVER!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

FOVC and me

I'm excited about partnering with FOVC. Before I get into the details of what we'll be doing with FOVC, let me give you a little background.

For those who don't know, I was born and raised in a central California farming community, I attended California State University, Fresno where I received a BS in Agriculture Education and plant science. I worked for the Iowa Natural Resources Conservation Service starting in college and upon graduation, moved to Northeast Iowa for a permanent position. Marriage and 2 biological kids later, we adopted a 2 year old boy and brought him home from Ethiopia last May. While driving through the country side in Ethiopia, I paid close attention to the farming operations and erosion because that's what I do for a career. While there, we were able to meet our son's birth mother. She's an amazing woman who lost her husband to pneumonia and then made the courageous decision to give up her youngest child for adoption because they were literally starving.

Since coming home 10 months ago, I continue to think about the poverty-stricken families in rural Southern Ethiopia. Most of the families live on less than $1 per day (which would buy two bunches of bananas as a comparison). When left as widows, the situation often becomes desperate. This is part of the reason there were 2,227 Ethiopian children adopted by U.S. families in 2009 (statistics found here). My desire to get involved in teaching them sustainable practices came to fruitition when I connected with Friends of Orphans and Vulnerable Children. FOVC is a grassroots organization dedicated to educating and supporting orphans, vulnerable children, and widows in Ethiopia and empowers them to break the cycle of poverty and hunger as they offer them hope and independence for the future.

In Ethiopia, too many children are living in extreme poverty in one parent homes. Because of abandonment, death from HIV/AIDS, malaria or other preventable diseases, mothers are raising their children alone. They are trying to keep the family together but most do not have education or skills to provide properly for their family. Partnership with FOVC helps these women provide for their children and keep them from becoming orphans. In addition to FOVC's other areas of service, they have a specific program called Hope for Widows. On a personal level, I can't fathom the heart ache of relinquishing a child. Judah's birth mom had to do that and is missing out on his dimples, his energy and his good behavior. I don't want her, or women like her, to have to go through that painful decision of relinquishing another child. Because of my education, career, international experience, and interest, I have been asked by FOVC to head up their crops portion of the Hope for Widows Project. To date, this is the only part of the project they have not been able to get off the ground. Additonally, they've asked Ryan to take part in their livestock for widows portion as a practicing veterinarian and someone who's worked in veterinary medicine in rural Mongolia.

When normal agricultural cycles are disrupted and sources of crop seeds are gone, people struggle to survive at the most basic level. Sadly, this is all too often the case in rural southern Ethiopia. Donations of $1,874 would provide over 220 pounds of seeds— nourishing maize, teff, beans, potatoes and onions - growing food for FOVC's widows and all of their children for years to come. As with our other Widow's Hope programs, the women in the program will make small re-payments to the Crops for Widows fund, so more widows and their families can be helped in the future. Now isn’t that a seed worth sowing? My goal is to take $2,000 U.S. dollars of seed money with me when I travel to Ethiopia. I've been asked to join a small team in late May/early June. The team will do various things. My responsibility will be to educate the women in the basics of farming (what likely had been there husbands livelihood). Ryan has been asked to join the team as well. His knowledge and experience will be used to work with the livestock.

This is where you can play a valuable role.

In the next 2 months, I will be raising up partners to establish the seed money for the "Crops for Widows" project. Additionally, Ryan and I will have to come up with over $5,000 for our travel and daily expenses. If you would like to partner with the project and/or with us personally, we would be greatful.

Here's the details for those interested: for the two of us to travel, we are looking at an estimated $3,000 in airline tickets and $2,400 that would cover daily expenses for the estimated 12 days of travel. Those expenses include all food, lodging, transportation, tips, water, taxis, etc. Because this organization is funding programs to serve the Ethiopians, we are responsible for 100% of the costs of the trip. In addition to giving up our vacation time, we need to fund our expenses. Having just comleted an adoption, we can't do this alone. With 5 donors at the $200 level, 10 donors at the $100 level, 20 donors at $50 level, and 20 donors at the $20 level, we would raise a fair amount but still be personally responsible for $2,000.

Our goal is to raise the majority of the funds. This isn't about me meeting a goal though, it's about changing the lives not just one child but of entire villages. Will you partner with us? Will you partner and encourage these women and their children? Please, please do not hesitate to contact me if you have any questions, would like more information, etc. My email is tam4buit@hotmail.com.

Thank you for your time. That in itself is much appreciated as I work to plant seeds.

Tax deductible checks may be written to Rocky Mountain Christian Church and mailed to me at Lory Howlett, FOVC, 1428 Venice Lane, Longmont, CO 80503. Please do not put anything in the memo line. Instead, please attach a sticky note or something that says "Tamara B" or "seed money" depending on what you want to support. Thanks!

Eager and ready to serve,

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

FOVC



Have you ever heard of Friends of Orphans and Vulnerable Children? I occasionally have seen the link to their website on one of the yahoo boards that I participate in. In early February, I decided to check it out for myself. You can do the same at http://www.fovc.org/.

What initially had my interest in FOVC was that they are in the Wolayta region of Ethiopia and Judah was born in Wolayta. Then as I read through their website, everything I read grabbed my interest:
  1. Building an Orphanage
  2. Raising money for new wells to be drilled
  3. Grassroots organization
  4. Working to provide hope for widows in several areas: livestock project, handicrafts project, and a crops projects.
  5. Their projects are self-sustaining - the widows receive loans that are paid back so that the money can be loaned to other women.

In early February I read Lory Howlett's blog and left a comment. Recently I read even more on the website and decided to email Lory. I couldn't stand idolly by. Over the last week, both Ryan and I seem to have found a good fit with FOVC.

... to be continued

If you haven't already done so, please take a peek at their website before my next post http://www.fovc.org/

Monday, March 7, 2011

10 Months Home...

(Judah and his friend, Ben)


Since we've been home 10 months as of today, I thought I'd share 10 things about Judah and/or how he's impacted my life.

  1. I cut Judah's hair. We keep it simple. Saturday, Ryan was home with the kids. When it came time for baths, Ryan asked Judah if he wanted his hair to match Ryan's. Judah said yes. Ryan trimmed it short, lathered his head up and shaved it with a straight razor.
  2. Judah still hasn't stayed the night anywhere without mommy and daddy.
  3. He's growing again. Judah turned 3 a month ago and is now growing out of some 3t shirts.
  4. Judah used to fall right to sleep when we laid him down. He's over that now and instead is really good at pretending he's asleep.
  5. Judah is super mechanical. Future engineer maybe???
  6. Though Judah has learned to cause trouble like his siblings, he's still a really good listener at bed time.
  7. He's a joy-filled little boy.
  8. Ryan loves his complexion!
  9. His beautiful smile, big eyes and sweet smooches make me sad for his first momma but are also a good reminder to pray for her.
  10. It's because of Judah and his birth mom that Ryan and I are planning to give back to southern Ethiopia and travel to the Wolayta region in May with Friends of Orphans and Vulnerable Children (www.fovc.org). *more on this later *

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Double Benefit

Do you know my friend LeAnn over at http://www.journeytostone.blogspot.com/? She's one cool lady. I don't really know her cause we live a few states away from each other. I know her via the the Holt adoption yahoo board. Recently LeAnn and her family started adoption #2. I'm super excited for them as they prepare to bring home a little boy who was waiting in the orphanage for a family.



Anyway, I wanted to share a really cool way that you can support their adoption and at the same time, help provide for needs children in Ethiopia. It's a double benefit. A $10 donation will provide one pair of croc-like shoes for a child in Ethiopia and help LeAnn and family raise money to help pay for their son's plane ticket home. How cool is that! I love this idea. Click here to make one donation that helps in two ways. You can read the specifics about their fundraiser and desire to provide shoes to kids in need here.

For those who like shoes, would you consider donating shoes to a child in need? For those who've adopted a child, would you donate shoes that might end up in the community your child is from. How cool would that be!?!?!?

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Shoes

Can you imagine wearing shoes like this? Most of us reading this have multiples pairs of shoes in our closet. Some of even have multiple pairs of one type of shoe - like black heels.

There's a really cool organization working in Ethiopia near where our son was born and lived the first 18 months of his life. Friends of Orphans and Vulnerable Children (FOVC) is a grassroots organization lead by an Ethiopian and supported by Americans. You can read more about them on their website: http://www.fovc.org/about.html

This picture has a story behind it. I read it here on Lory's blog. Here's what she says: the picture is of an FOVC boy's shoes...he couldn't help with the building project because the shoes were so tattered....before Team Tasfa member Ingrid outfitted him with new shoes. The boy was found, crying and alone, a couple of hours later. Investigating the reason for his tears, Ingrid learned he was overcome with tears of joy because he had been given a real pair of shoes.
*edited to add: How cool that Ingrid, the one who gave the boy the shoes, commented on my blog. She linked the actual story in her comment. If you want to read it from her point of view, check it out here: http://12knotheel.blogspot.com/2011/01/our-team-brought-over-multiple.html

Wow. And I have how many pairs of shoes in my closet?!?! Most of which I don't wear because the soles are worn out and they're no longer comfortable.

Did you know that $250 buys 40 pairs of shoes for kids in need? Wow. Do you know what I spent on my last pair of Keen's? This is the same reason that I couldn't bring myself to buy the pair of keens I showed you in this post. Anyone want to save a few bucks, throw the money together and buy shoes for kids in need?